
As I reflect back to our wedding vows I am reminded that my dear husband truly strives to live up to the covenants and commitments that he has made to me.
We are in the process of acquiring new furniture that isn't hand-me-overs, curb side rescues, out of a box or bachelor pad ready. It has been a daunting task and has made me grumpy on more than one occasion.
We have a formal sitting area when you first enter our home. It is my 'visiting teaching' room. I wanted this room to be clean, well appointed and a place to display the thoughts and feelings that are in our home. I don't know why these chairs struck me as such but, they did and I just had to have them because I loved them so much.
Scott, didn't (doesn't) love them. He told me they are hideous, awful, ugly, the worst chairs he has ever seen and no way, no how were they going to be in our home.
He generally doesn't have an opinion about how I decorate and so for him to voice all this made me take a step back and accept that I didn't need to have these chairs. So I searched and searched for something else and ended up leaving without my Safari set. (I wasn't pouting either, just in case you were wondering.)
I kept teasing him about the chairs. They became our inside joke. A few weeks later when we went back to the store for other things, Scott asked the salesman... "Hey, does anybody ever buy those chairs?"
The mans reply was "
Hummph-Not, any DUDES." So that pretty much sealed the deal.
For sure after Scott's masculinity was challenged, there would be no way he would get those chairs, right?
I ran to another store to pick out a mattress and when I came back he hands me the receipts and tells me 'Happy Mothers Day, I bought the hideous chair set.' (Romantic sounding, I know right?)
Well to me it was. I appreciated that he 'took one for the team' and did something that he knew would please me, even though he hated it. He made me happy before himself and showed that he cares for my wants and desires.
I love him for this gesture. And, if I knew way back then, what I know now- the answer to his proposal would still be- YES, YES a MILLION TIMES-YES!
Scott,
Thank you for my beautiful Safari Chair Set. I love it. It just makes me smile. It makes me think of you... You Animal! Thank you for my huge bouquet of flowers too. Keep them coming I love the feeling that they give to our home.♥ I love you so much.